One of the best pieces of dialogue I've heard recently cropped up on some cop-shop show I was watching on television. A woman looks at a male colleague and says, approximately, "You know, you are the only man who has never let me down. I'm not sure if that makes you my soul mate or my prime enabler."
And which is which? No doubt there are those who can dissect and parse, but I thought it was a pretty good observation.
Which is which -- enabler or soul mate?